Making your first contact with Russian women online can be easier than you might think at first. You are simply looking to a woman to talk to a little, listen to a bit, and engage in conversation with over a period of time. It doesn't have to be a serious exploit to run off and find a wife within the first week. This is just about making first contact with Russian women. Keep it in perspective and you will do just fine.
You are looking for a Russian woman because you are looking for someone that fits a particular profile. There is nothing wrong with that. Over 80% of long term relationships these days start online and most are done through some sort of cold contact. Don't let your imagination run wild at the sight of her photo.
You're just talking to her. Sure, there is an underlying motivation for both of you. You want to find a woman and she wants to find someone just like you. But once you remove the pressure of these intentions, you can relax and enjoy the contact a lot more. It's like a little adventure that you're having through your computer.
There are plenty of people who go online to find their mate. The process, however, doesn't change whether your first contact with Russian women online is bold or meager. Each person needs to develop a sense of comfort and even a little bit of trust. You are looking for someone that you are compatible with, not someone that you will find frustrating. Going through the process slowly and with respect will get you so much farther. You and she are both very much aware that these chats are sort of like a two way interview. Relax and have fun with it.
Work off of a ready made list of open ended questions that encourage conversations. Don't just ask her if she likes something. Ask her to tell you about her experiences, her thoughts, and her beliefs. The more you ask her to talk about herself, the more comfortable she is going to be with you. The more you really take in what she is saying, the more you will know her at the end of the conversation.
You might be a little nervous when it comes to your first contact with Russian women online, and you might start off a little rough. After a few exchanges, chances are that you and she will fall into a better rhythm. However, pay attention at the other end of the conversation. Once the IMs or the web chat starts to die off, don't kill it off. Let it become a natural place to end the chat for the day. Ask about another time to talk and excuse yourself for awhile.
Remember that even an online relationship takes a little time to get going. You can't expect either of you to be ready to leap into a pretend relationship if you're going after something a little deeper. Give it a little time. Talk often even if the conversations are short. It's better for both of you to feel as though you want to talk more than wait until one of you simply can't wait to get offline.
Ask her often about her level of comfort in talking to you. Ask her if there's anything you're doing that is making her uncomfortable. If she tells you there is something, which she probably won't, make changes that feel good to you. It's always possible that the two of you are not a great match if one or both of you have to change a great deal in order to effectively communicate.
You are looking for a Russian woman because you are looking for someone that fits a particular profile. There is nothing wrong with that. Over 80% of long term relationships these days start online and most are done through some sort of cold contact. Don't let your imagination run wild at the sight of her photo.
You're just talking to her. Sure, there is an underlying motivation for both of you. You want to find a woman and she wants to find someone just like you. But once you remove the pressure of these intentions, you can relax and enjoy the contact a lot more. It's like a little adventure that you're having through your computer.
There are plenty of people who go online to find their mate. The process, however, doesn't change whether your first contact with Russian women online is bold or meager. Each person needs to develop a sense of comfort and even a little bit of trust. You are looking for someone that you are compatible with, not someone that you will find frustrating. Going through the process slowly and with respect will get you so much farther. You and she are both very much aware that these chats are sort of like a two way interview. Relax and have fun with it.
Work off of a ready made list of open ended questions that encourage conversations. Don't just ask her if she likes something. Ask her to tell you about her experiences, her thoughts, and her beliefs. The more you ask her to talk about herself, the more comfortable she is going to be with you. The more you really take in what she is saying, the more you will know her at the end of the conversation.
You might be a little nervous when it comes to your first contact with Russian women online, and you might start off a little rough. After a few exchanges, chances are that you and she will fall into a better rhythm. However, pay attention at the other end of the conversation. Once the IMs or the web chat starts to die off, don't kill it off. Let it become a natural place to end the chat for the day. Ask about another time to talk and excuse yourself for awhile.
Remember that even an online relationship takes a little time to get going. You can't expect either of you to be ready to leap into a pretend relationship if you're going after something a little deeper. Give it a little time. Talk often even if the conversations are short. It's better for both of you to feel as though you want to talk more than wait until one of you simply can't wait to get offline.
Ask her often about her level of comfort in talking to you. Ask her if there's anything you're doing that is making her uncomfortable. If she tells you there is something, which she probably won't, make changes that feel good to you. It's always possible that the two of you are not a great match if one or both of you have to change a great deal in order to effectively communicate.
About the Author:
Mark De Schutter is the webmaster of a Russian dating service called "Russian Dating Live". This is an online dating service for men who would wish to meet Russian brides who are serious about marriage to Western men.
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